Its my birthday and i dont think he is gonna get me anything....?

today is my 23rd birthday and the first birthday of mine since being with my fiance. we dont have a lot of money right now and he said he was gonna get me something when he gets paid(we do have enough that he could spend $50-$100). i said to him last night that it is fine but its gonna make me sad to not get anything on my birthday. he knows i get depressed this time of year and flowers or a card would be enough to make my day but i dont think he will get anything. on his 30th birthday in august i threw him a big party, got him clothes and concert tickets. now i am afraid if he does not come home with anything i am going to burst into tears or be a *****. my question is, what should i say to him to help him understand how hurt i am and that i really dont care to get a present later because he feels like he needs to spend lots of money? how would this make you feel?

Its my birthday and i dont think he is gonna get me anything....?
I would be upset.


If he will come home empty-handed, I would say how I feel. That something small, like card or flowers would be sufficient to make you smile and happy, knowing even if he can%26#039;t afford fancy presents, he loves you and cares about you enough.


And for the future, girl, try to give as much as you take. Don%26#039;t throw big parties for him when money is an issue and you know he will not do the same for you. it may sound selfish, but it will save your from heartache, when you feel like you feel now - not loved and cared for.


Good luck darling, and happy birthday! %26lt;hug%26gt;
Reply:Love isn%26#039;t about who can spend how much on each other. If that is what you base your love on, then sorry to break this to you but you are gonna end up sad AND lonely.
Reply:So what your saying is that you want him to spend his last dime on you right?








You are a selfish *****!
Reply:You sound like a selfish, whiney *****. You are broke; you should have said %26quot;Please don%26#039;t get me anything this year.%26quot;





BTW, if a man is 30 years old and can%26#039;t afford a nice present, he shouldn%26#039;t be getting married.
Reply:Get used to it or call off the engagement. Honestly if he is this way now he will always be!





Am I doing the math right, you got together and engaged in one year????





Sheesh......



makeup tips