Sunday, April 12, 2009

Anonymous flowers?

I sent flowers anonymously to a coworker I like on her birthday. I realize now that it was cowardly of me to not reveal my name on the card. It is now a week later and she has not asked me about them - should I tell her or just let it go?

Anonymous flowers?
Ok, one question, have you in any other way let her know that you are interested in her? If not, maybe she%26#039;s intimidated and is scared to talk about it in fear that you may not be the one that sent them. Especially if she likes you there would be some fear of rejection or humiliation. If you have been obvious about your feelings and she hasn%26#039;t approached then maybe she isn%26#039;t interested. Or maybe she possibly has someone already??? I honestly think you should send another set of flowers, in the same vase perhaps, and this time sign your name.... She will definetly be flattered. Don%26#039;t sign the card with %26quot;Love%26quot; or %26quot;Friends%26quot; , let her decide how to take it from there. The flowers will definetly get mentioned after the second time and by her reply you will know how she feels about you.
Reply:ohhh well i would say somehting like did you find out who gave you the flowers? then you should ask her out.... very sweet of you and romantic
Reply:You can always approach her by saying,


%26quot;I just wanted to know if you had liked


the flowers I had sent you for your birthday?%26quot;





She may possibly respond by


saying she did not know they


were from you because there was no


card with them.





At which point you can say,


%26quot;Maybe they had a lot of deliveries


that day and forgot to include it.%26quot;





And then base your follow-up response


on what she says next-


this will cover up the fact that you


took the cowardly approach in the


first place.





Good Luck~*
Reply:Yah, maybe she didn%26#039;t get the hint. Ask her %26quot; Did you get the flowers I sent you for your b-day?%26quot;





I think its very romantic.
Reply:She may have just thought it was a friend or family member.. either keep sending her more gifts or flowers and start signing them %26quot;secret admirer%26quot; and then eventually coming clean. Or just tell her straight out that it was you who sent them. Maybe you could just say %26quot;By the way, did you like the flowers I sent you for your birthday?%26quot; Or something nonchalant.
Reply:just tell her about them. maybe she loved them



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